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Double Clique

Tuesday, March 29th, 2005

Below is a reply I posted on a discussion board about “Cliques”. Talk about long-winded:

Going back to the ideas of cliques, yes they do exist. That’s the nature of humanity. Do they exist as much as people say they do ? Probably not.

From my own observations the stereotypical clique of a group of nasty poisonous people is present but not frequent. You will encounter a bunch of insecure people who gather together and as a group look down their noses at people. The reason that they stick together is probably because they can’t find anyone else that will put up with this incessant bitching. That’s good really, it shows the community can do its own policing and reject the rubbish.

There are groups of people on the scene that socialise together and they most certainly are not cliques. Humans gather in groups, work in groups, socialise in groups, use group intelligence and knowledge sharing. For the scene or any community to be made up of groups of people is the norm.

For an outsider trying to crack the group and become part of it can prove difficult but I think it’s not that members of the group are unwilling to make friends and welcome people but it’s down to them being so comfortable with the status quo that change can unnerve them. I find groups can be more welcoming and open minded about individuals than one person dealing with just one other. Groups allow a buffer which increases tolerance.

A lot of time groups will allow the shy and nervous person to open up and allow their personality to shine, but when a new person comes along the shy person will once again go all quiet which could be misinterpreted as being unfriendly. I know of one person who seemed very unapproachable but it was because they’re a very shy person.

( On a side note and without going into a full anthropological debate, groups also have a size limit which according to Dunbar in the paper “Co-evolution of Neocortex size” is 150. 150 was why up until last week contact lists were limited to this number on MSN. So, some people might just get overloaded as they reach this soft limit and might not appear to want proper friendship.)

Some people that feel rejected by groups may have been rejected because they didn’t understand the social dynamic of the group and instead of trying to go with the flow and understand the way the group operated they came in and tried to change the flow. You’ll rarely be able to do that. It’s always best when trying to interact with a group to learn the rules and then work with them. Strong personalities can upset the established equilibrium of the group.

Groups too can have an individual or two who are insecure and love nothing more than to berate someone and make them feel inferior. If the group is weak they’ll allow these personalities to get away with this ugly behaviour. It’s a shame but it does not mean that the ones who didn’t speak out are nasty people or the same as those mouthing off. I wouldn’t consider the group a clique either.

There are others who are loathe to admit that they did not integrate into a group because they just didn’t fit. Being in total denial they’ll make up excuses as to why. They won’t say it’s because they stirred shit and set group members against each other. It’s far easier on the ego to state the group was too cliquey. Cliques are the new “race card” these days. Blame it all on the cliques. People need to adapt to fit into a group, generally in just small ways.

So, in summary as it needs one: there are cliques, but they are not prevalent and the best thing to do with a clique is ignore the losers.

In no particular order…

Sunday, March 20th, 2005

Hacking Google Desktop Search– Google Desktop Search can be used as an application for remotely monitoring computers across a LAN.

Got Soles ?

Tom Waits picks his fav albums.

Make the best VC pitch while using PowerPoint.

George Frost Kennan Feb. 16, 1904 — Mar. 17, 2005. Think of the Marshall plan.

World Economic Forum Rankings – Ireland 22nd

Friday, March 11th, 2005

World Economic Forum show Ireland is at 22nd place. WEForum Press Release. This ranks how Ireland is exploiting global ICT (information and communications technology) developments. In other words: we’re crap and we could be doing a lot more about it.

The lights

Friday, March 11th, 2005

Spike Jonez Adidas Ad. Great music. Music: Composed by Squeak E. Clean and featuring Karen O of the Yeah Yeah Yeahs. I really want to get hold of it.

RentAGerman – Everyone needs a German from time to time.

Queer Eye for the Straight Guy tackle Sadaam.

Tips for Mastering E-mail Overload Very handy. Via 43Folders.

How to never miss an episode with BitTorrent and RSS. This guide makes it easy for me to leave my BT client select what I like. It’s far better than an irc client waiting for a torrent or one of the standalone clients.

Buster, Landmines and other videos

Wednesday, March 9th, 2005

That famous Buster the Rabbit episode that the US Secretary of Education condemned as the Rabbit met a kid with two lesbian moms. PBS withdrew it but you can download it online now. Download and distribute.

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The above is a clip from an anti-landmine ad that TV stations in America refuse to air. The ad opens with a scene of idyllic suburban tranquility. A young family cheers on their daughter who has just scored a goal in her soccer match when she suddenly, violently explodes. Chaos consumes the scene while the mother of the victim shrieks hysterically and her father cradles her lifeless body. A simple graphic reads: “If there were landmines here, would you stand for landmines anywhere? Help the U.N. eradicate landmines everywhere. View landmine clip here. or Get the torrent. Found this on World Changing and Boing Boing.

minicouch.jpg Another lot of Public Service Announcements are ones dealing with AIDS in Russia. Again found on Worldchanging, these ads are really well done and should be downloaded and distributed. HalfCity deals with a city missing so many people as a result of HIV/AIDS. Kutuzovsky, shows AIDS is like a traffic jam, it doesn’t discriminate. Old City shows a city where only old people are left. It ends with the caption “4 out of 5 Russians living with HIV today are under 30.”

Congratulations Donncha !

Sunday, March 6th, 2005

Looking at the Technorati Top 100, Donncha comes in at No. 46. Well done Donncha. Hopefully we’ll see more Irish Bloggers gain a foothold in the top 50 soon.

Diarmuid and I

Friday, March 4th, 2005

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Wavehunt

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2005

WaveHunt

Citywide Wireless Cat and Mouse Game to be held in Dublin

WaveHunt is a high-tech treasure hunt using a moving wireless computer network, with a first prize of two hundred euro!

Claiming a first for Ireland, this new wireless network tracking competition will be witnessed in Dublin City on Saturday, March 5th. Inspired by a similar event in Las Vegas, WaveHunt is a fun event for Ireland’s technical community that will test their network and direction finding skills.

A cross between orienteering and a manhunt, entrants will be armed only with a laptop, which will serve as a compass enabling them to follow the person carrying a wireless access point. Once entrants are close enough, they will receive a series of clues leading to the identity of the carrier. The entrant with the fastest time in registering the identity of the carrier wins the first prize.

RedBrick committee member Charlie Von Metzradt, organiser of this game commented, “We’re hoping to get as many people as possible to come out and play this game. It tests an individuals with and fitness while incorporating modern technology in the shape of a PDA/laptop and wireless card.”

Kindly sponsored by Esat BT, WaveHunt is being run by RedBrick (DCU’s Networking Society) as part of Tech Week in DCU which has various groups and societies running events and talks that are IT related. WaveHunt is adding a physical dimension to these events. Individuals and teams, including companies are all encouraged to the partake in this, its inaugural year.

Letter from Data Protection Commissoner

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2005

Brief Description : Unsolicited Emails – requesting further information
Comments :

Mr Mulley

I am writing to acknowledge receipt of your letter dated 15/02/05 on the
1/03/05.

Before I can proceed with the matter any further I require the following
details:

– A declaration that you have not consented to receiving such
communications.
– A copy of any instruction given to the sender not to send messages to you
(if any)
– A statement that you wish to make a formal complaint.
– A statement that you will be willing to give evidence in Court relating
to the complaint.
– A statement that you will be willing to give a sworn statement, if
requested.

Awaiting your response.

Clearing some tabs

Tuesday, March 1st, 2005

This place sucks. Mixing Justice League with Office Space.

Cool DJ

Thrift Deluxe – Make your own clothes and household ornaments.

GQ on Google – Journey to the (Revoltionary, Evil-Hating, Cash-Crazy, and Possibly Self-Destructive) Center of Google.

The 48 Laws of Power

Banksy takes on Brighton – Two coppers snogging.

Overlinked English Rugby Joke